After my divorce I couldn't listen to love songs. Then I found K-pop. And something was different. BTS endured sleeping in one room in a management company about to go bankrupt, going on radio shows and having their idols ridicule them for wearing makeup and not being hip hop enough. Jungkook going on the variety show and being cast aside for bringing burgers. He had to smile through it while everyone else went to eat something else. I realized I had never been with someone whose everyday charac